Because I’ve been wanting to write a post about this anyway, I’m responding to Joe and Jack’s comments on my post “My Situation” with a whole new post.
I read all the time on other people’s blogs about how nobody gets it and people are rude to them because they live in a car, but honestly, I can’t think of one time in the last two years I’ve ever gotten this reaction. I have started to wonder if perhaps vandwellers are too quick to jump upon any slight as being proof that we’re being trod-upon and snubbed by society. We are generally so proud of our rebel/anti-conformity outlook that maybe it’s easier to justify a “screw you” attitude to society if we can cultivate the belief that society has a “screw you” attitude to us.
Like I said in the earlier post, there’s a small percentage of people who I haven’t managed to convince that I’m doing this because I want to and not because I have to, but I can’t think of a single time I’ve encountered rudeness or snobbery because I live in a car. I’m sure that eventually I will, but it just doesn’t seem to be as prevalent as someone considering living in their car my get the impression of from surfing the web. I would hate to think that it would discourage anyone from trying it because it’s just so damn awesome to live this way.
Maybe I’m too wrapped up in myself to notice I’m being snubbed. Maybe I just hang out with the right people. Either way, it’s time I ask this question of all the vandwellers out there.
Who has snubbed you for living in your car? I’m not talking about people pitying you because they can’t comprehend you’re doing this because you want to. I’m not talking about people being annoyed that you’re sneaking into a campground to shower. I am also not talking about communities passing laws that make it more difficult for vandwellers. I’m talking about personal rudeness or snobbery in a one-on-one situation in which car living or vandwelling is the ‘reason’ for it.
I want to know how often people are being snubbed on a regular basis specifically for living in their car/van.
I’ve been putting off this post because I’ve been trying to figure out how to write it so it doesn’t offend anyone, but here you are. This is is something I’ve been thinking about for a while and would really like to get a discussion going on it.